OK! Thanks for all the views and comments guys.
What I really wanted to show here was my predicament a few years back. And of course a few take aways. I wanted to write this sooner, but I ended up being lazy 🙂
So what should be the answer to my question? Well, depending on the person it can be anything (I know a lot of people will argue this, but I still believe that it is ultimately a choice)
If however we decide to pursue our dreams, we have to be prepared for one thing – failure. It is but certain that we will encounter disappointments and failures during our journey towards our dreams. And when it comes to handling failures, I can think of two things which helped me.
The first is the joy of following my heart. Most often I see people aiming for something which they dont understand or which is not theirs. A classical example in the Indian context is a boy or girl wanting to do engineering. The boy or the girl would not know what is engineering or what it is about, but still want to do engineering. Why? Because it is what everybody does. It is a proof that you are intelligent. It is what your parents tell you. So, the first thing I will suggest is follow YOUR heart. Follow YOUR dreams, not somebody elses. The joy of following your heart is one of the few things which can overpower any failure.
The other thing and probably most important thing is that we do not achieve anything individually but as a group. Man is a social animal. When we achieve something, it is not a singular effort, but the result of help of all our friends and family. We need our friends and family to be there for us when we fail. The same way we must help out our friends and kin in distress. A person with very strong relationships can overcome any tragedy. So make sure you have friends and family close to you.
Consider this as my sermon for diwali 🙂
Have a happy diwali with your kith and kin.
Wish you all a happy diwali and eid.